The other day I was reading an excerpt from the book Real Life: Preparing for the 7 Worst Days of Your Life, by Dr. Phil. This particular excerpt pertained to FEAR. A few things hit me as they pretty much described ME about a year ago...
1. "...you will settle for what you don't want instead of pushing for what you do want because you are afraid you might not get it and are scared of how much that would hurt."
2. "...you are afraid that if you don't settle for a "bird in the hand" you will never get the two in the bush."
3. "...you will tell yourself no over and over again because you don't want to face the fear associated with taking a risk...".
So, I have come to the conclusion that FEAR sucks. FEAR stops you from following your dreams. FEAR stops you from reaching your full potential. FEAR keeps you at "doing just enough".
If FEAR has a hold on you, you need to take a stand! Face your fears. Don't let fear keep you from the success that you know you are.
You see, when you are actively pursuing what it is you want for your life, there is no longer a place for fear.
So, I wish you much success in whatever you choose to do in your life and remember, fear only has control over you if you let it.
About Me
- michellehoskins
- Welcome, I'm glad you stopped by. Now a little about me: I'm a wife, 17 years and a mom, 2 boys 18 and 14. The boys keep us very busy with sports, etc. Over the years we have spent many a cold night at the football field and just as many hot days at the baseball diamond. Both of the boys however, have turned in their cleats for tennis rackets so, I'm learning a whole new sport. We're a pretty laid back family and I wouldn't have it any other way. I'm an avid reader. Mostly self help books. I also enjoy a good true crime story. If it's breaking news you better believe I'm tuned in. So, if you need the 411, hit me up. I love all kinds of music, you have to when you have kids. I love life and make sure I laugh each and every day! (even if it's at myself and quite honestly, it usually is!)
6 comments:
Michelle
I agree with your blog and the quotes. Fear is a roadblock for many, it tears down and eliminates so much that we can have in our lives. Thank for the blog, it was very good reading.
Janet aka SunriseSunsetGal
Great fear advice- I love the idea of making a plan to face fears. Thank you.
Michelle,
Fear--False Evidence Appearing Real
But it stops so many people dead in their tracks. It's sad when that happens.
Keep up the great posts.
Michelle...that's quite a definition of FEAR! I have had to overcome fear also. Life is so much more pleasant after ridding your fears. Getting rid of fear is moving toward success and most of all happiness!
Hey Michelle
This blog is awesome, really gets you to thinking! Replace fear with faith and keep holding on!
Meshell578(Michelle A. White)
Excellent post. By facing those fears we can acomplish so much.
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